S/he’s got class…

Helen Mirren

A friend of mine is planning a book about the concept of ‘having class’  or ‘being a class act’ and what that means to different people. He asked me for my thoughts, and after going back and forth between several ideas, I came up with the following: 

I believe the concept of ‘class’ has to have a strong tie to the idea of ‘upper class’ from which it probably originated.   I believe it has evolved to mean the best of upper class sensibilities and behavior.  When I began considering what it means to ‘have class,’ I realized I was going in the direction of defining ‘class’ primarily in terms of ‘good character,’ but I have changed my mind.   I can imagine a homeless person, in dirty clothing having good character, but not ‘class.’  I can also imagine a well to-do person having all the outward indicators of upper class affluence, but not what I would consider ‘class’ (think Donald Trump.)    So while I can NOT imagine someone of poor character having ‘class,’  I CAN imagine someone of good character not having ‘class.’   Therefore, in my mind,  ‘class’ is a subset of good character, and good character is a necessary but insufficient quality of ‘class.’

‘Class’ for me requires the virtues of good character, honor and integrity, but with the sophistication and outward demeanor and appearance that one would expect of the best representatives of the privileged class.   In my mind, the person of ‘class’ has a certain pride and even vanity – self confidence, poise, self-possession, and dignity, tempered with a humble understanding and acceptance of one’s place in the universe.   I also believe that ‘class’ must include etiquette and good manners appropriate to context, as understood by one’s culture.  The person of ‘class’ is at home with the wealthy and more privileged classes, while at the same time respectful of and comfortable with those on the less privileged end of the social spectrum. 

The idea of ‘class’ (in my mind) is very much in alignment with Aristotle’s idea of the ‘magnanimous man’ or person of excellence.   For Aristotle, the purpose of life is to become as good as one can be, given one’s genetics, place and role in society.   The person of excellence represents the best that man can become (for Aristotle, in his time and culture, this was an exclusively male prerogative.)  Aristotle’s ‘magnanimous man’ or person of excellence has been educated, trained and his virtue and character developed to become a role model and esteemed leader in the community.   Though I’ve never seen ‘class’ used in the definition of Aristotle’s person of excellence, I imagine it would be an important quality – though humility was never a great virtue in Aristotle’s time.  The virtue of humility creeps into my definition of excellence and ‘class,’ due to my own modern American egalitarian prejudices.

 In short, ‘class’ to me means a confident upper class poise and demeanor, with a strong moral overlay of honor and virtue, respect for others, and humility.  ‘Class’ not only describes a person’s being, but also must describe that person’s overall behavior – how s/he presents him/herself to the community.   Having ‘class,’ is judged by the community in which a person lives and acts. 

If you have any thoughts on ‘class,’ and would like to add your input to the discussion and his book,  simply comment on this blog (he’ll be checking comments), or contact Dan Bozung directly at dbozung@gmail.com

3 thoughts on “S/he’s got class…

  1. Pingback: S/he’s got class… (via Bob Schoultz’s Corner) « Master of Science in Global Leadership Blog

  2. In general, I agree wholeheartedly. However – I do choke a bit on the whole ‘upper class’ reference. I think it’s a bit shallow. If you’re referencing the historical context of the upper class and serfs then the implications for the behavior of the upper class was so much more than their carriage and a dash of humility. The point of the upper class was to care for their serfs. They carried the responsibility of overseeing little kingdoms – resolving disputes, ensuring there was adequate health care and protection, voicing their kingdom’s issues to a higher body of representatives – when there was one.

    Our current idea of ‘upper class’ generally feel no such responsibility to the fortunes of those they employ.

    I think class means to use your position for the good of others – especially those less privileged than you. It also means being humble enough not just to actively seek opportunities to serve others but to learn from them as well.

    Think of the last time you observed someone’s action and thought ‘classy’. They probably tempered their own power to use it for good and not destruction.


  3. Anne – most of the debate on this issue with my friends is whether the concept of ‘class’ has a moral compoent. My wife and others says NO – it’s all worldliness and sophistication, you say ABSOLUTELY – it’s all about character, and I sit in the middle and say both/and. An interesting discussion. Thanks, as always, for your comments!


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